Yes indeed. Good things happen to good people, Amber. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Amber2011 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Yes indeed. Good things happen to good people, Amber. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Amber2011 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Amber, that's wonderful!! I'm happy for you! Yay!
i wud say go a bit slowly...
I would say don't worry. I haven't heard from him since. He texted me just after 6pm, I replied and I haven't heard another word. For the past couple of weeks, he's always texted a "goodnight" text. Perhaps he's got cold feet and decided he doesn't want another meeting. Well, I'm of an age where I am not going to chase after a man. I have many interests to keep me occupied plus, I may have a new job after tomorrow (everyone keep your fingers crossed) so, although slightly disappointed, not overly worried about it. These things happen. Although we got on very well, I did have an underlying feeling he wasn't right for me. Never mind. Onwards and upwards!Quote:
Originally Posted by love guru [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Awww. That's too bad. I love your attitude -- very optimistic! Good luck with your new job (I'm sure you'll get it!)
:D
Dropped him a quick text asking if everything was OK. He replied he'd just been busy. Yeah right! Despite him saying he wanted to see me again, I think he has taken cold feet. Not to worry. It was a very pleasant afternoon which I enjoyed but realistically, there was no spark. My son's friend's mother is a divorcee who is a member of a singles club. She's asked me if I'd like to go one evening so I think I will. It will make a nice change and get me out of the house :)
Again, go find a nice man....a really good man.... and have LOTS OF SEX!!!
You deserve to have fun and enjoy life.
Sounds like fun-- go for it! :)
You sound like an awesome person Amber. I predict you'll have more male companions than you know what to do with--men adore women with a mature, upbeat attitude.
Trouble is, I don't go out often, dislike pubs and nightclubs so there's really not a lot of places to meet someone, except through online dating - how I got to know the man I met on Saturday. We'd been writing back and forth for the past 3 months. Even on Saturday, he seemed really keen but something's made him change his mind. He seems to be unable to let go of the past (he has had a lot of tragedy in the past, several close relatives dying one after the other) but to move forward in life you HAVE to let go of the past - otherwise you will never move on with your life. You never forget but you learn to accept it, live with it but move on.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Whatever way, I wish him well but even if he does contact me again, I'm afraid I would turn down another meeting. I don't like people who mess me around or don't know what they want. Lame ducks I can do without!!!
Ditto! That's my main problem. Plus the fact that I can't drive at night due to night-blindness so I'm really limited in ways to meet anyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Amber2011 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hobbies? A course? Lots of activities where you can meet people. Do you have a local club for 'mature companions', you know, the sort one uses to find dates for the symphony, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Amber2011 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Not sure if meetup.com is in the UK, but thats another possibility. Also check the local uni; there are loads of activities (not all for the students).