it hurts when u end it. it doesnt matter when or why. it doesnt matter whose faults cause it. it hurts and it pains.
if u want a label, u can get it from anywhere. if u want the guy u love then that is hard to get. always remember, no matter how strained a marriage, a man cannot completely ever let go of the mother of his children.
no one here can give u when to end it. that is something that u have to find out for urself. because only U know how much u feel about him, and i dont know how, women always KNOW how much a guy is feeling for them.
trust urself and respect ur feelings. u will know.
Hussain