Originally Posted by
Petit Papillon
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But why are you upset with it... It's not a surprise for you, right? You have to leave, it's not doing you good... And when you are not good, your kids aren't either. I am 100% sure if you leave him, there is someone waiting for you, who will not make you insecure, where you will not have to control him, cause he will give you enough confidence. It's not going to be the end of the world. The best thing to do is to make the first step without looking at the possible results. After you'll be put in the new situation and you'll be forced to move on. You understand me? Now you have the doubt, what if, maybe you will not make it, but once you end up "in the middle of hell" you will have the only option, and the option will be to make everything work.
There are so many things that we don't imagine we could do, until we are forced to do them. And it works. Be strong, it's for your sake.