Originally Posted by
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Vincenzo, I wouldn't treat him as a friend, but I wouldn't beat his ass or anything either. I don't view it as his fault. At all. My girl is the one with the commitment to me, not this random guy. The other person is not the one that ruined the relationship; the person who cheats did.
I would expect a large percentage of guys to want to beat the other man's ass, but that's often the same type of insecurity that leads to their girl looking elsewhere in the first place. I know it has been in all 3 cases that I've been involved in.
I realize this topic is close to you. Your girl was a whore, and all that guy did is expose her for you. Being with her that long, you had to be thinking marriage..aren't you glad you didn't marry her?
I'm interested to know how you view your situation, and where you place the blame?