This is no troll, and I'm not stupid. I used condoms when I was seeing escorts...and it was no fun. It was a really bad time of my life, and i regretted it. I never use a condom when im dating, because i try to know my partner first before having sex. The sex on 1st date was not like we just met. We have known each other for months, and I made a decision that she was minimal risk. I don't have any diseases or anything. I am actually very careful. Condoms are for people who sleep with strangers, which is not the case with me in a relationship. I appreciate real inputs, but stop judging me. There are no angels here. We are all adults. I don't think it's cheating if we are not married yet. I am just exploring, and making sure. Whats wrong with that?