I think it was his way of saying 'I love you and I can't be without you - regardless of what happens between us/how bad fights are.'
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I think it was his way of saying 'I love you and I can't be without you - regardless of what happens between us/how bad fights are.'
He knows exactly what I want, because I make it known. I will talk to him tonight and maybe we can get to the bottom of things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kromat83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was gaining a lot of weight over the last couple of years and I was aware of it. Had someone I love mentioned it to me I wouldn't have been offended (I lost all that weight again). Guys usually aren't that sensitive about that. Maybe he was already ticked off a little bit before and you saying he's gaining weight just pushed him over the edge? But all of that is still no excuse to put you down whenever he can. Have you told him to stop? And no, don't just say "stop it". Actually sit down with him and tell him calmly how you feel about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by xotrue [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Grief is a horrible thing and it really messes with your head. I have been there. If hes nasty to you-its probably not him-its the grief. Just try to support him-be his rock while he gets through it. Stay positive-it will get better in timeQuote:
Originally Posted by xotrue [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
ps: It could be two years before he starts to feel normal again. Look up the stages of grief.
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Originally Posted by xotrue [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
and there you have it. Just have a straight forward talk about things. If he does say bad things, ask him why he has a need to. hash this out and then determine if this relationship has pasted it's expiry date.
Also, he expects me to act like a wife. Clean his apartment, wash his clothes, get breakfast for him in the morning - he gets upset when I do not do these things. I tell him constantly that it is not my responsibility to do his chores. He works 15 hours days. Today, he asked for me to send him a sexy video. I sent a video. Then he calls and says "I've been working all day and that is what you send me?" Prior to sending the video, I asked what he wanted. He didn't tell me. Such stupid things that are always blown into something big and ridiculous. Always, I am blamed for everything. He never takes responsibility for his actions - when I call him out about this, he responds back saying "What have I done. Name something that I've done wrong." I feel as though, I shouldn't have to list everything out and as a man he knows exactly what it is that he does wrong and should own up. What is wrong with this?
This statement makes no logical sense what-so-ever.Quote:
Originally Posted by xotrue [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Makes no sense to me either.
Maybe you are dating a retard? Have you contemplated that very possibility?
I've thought about that. But, I think he has plenty of sense. He graduated from an ivy.
You're dating a dick. Why on earth do you stay with him?Quote:
Originally Posted by xotrue [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
because he graduated from an ivy. Though I'm not sure how one graduates from a plant.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
One graduates from a plant with loads of manure.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Would make sense.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]