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You can never be too happy.
If you keep having negative or worried thoughts, you're bound to look for problems. Stop worrying and be blessed for being happy. Savor the moment.
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Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
He has asking her for a divorce in the near future./
One of my hater acquaintance or friend from years ago is jealous cause she doesnt have a man. She said he is not a good man cause he left an disabled wife. How stupid is that. That man has a right to want a normal and happy life. Some people jsut want to say negative things because they wish they had a man in their lives. I can't stand jealous haters. I stopped confiding in her because she found all the negative in everything. A true hater. Keeping her at an arms lenght as far as anything.
If it was me, I wouldn't let him divorce her. If he does divorce her then he would be a better man if he made sure that she was financially taken care of and that her medical/nursing was in place.
Don't get jealous when he goes and visits her until she's no longer alive to go visit.
*Adding: Besides, not to rain on your parade or anything, but I'd imagine he's been telling you for a while that he's going to "divorce her soon."
If I were her, I'd tell him to have his life with you (it would be the unselfish thing to do) but I too think he'd be a better man if he allowed her to make that sacrifice without it being forced upon her in her condition.
Ya I agree, you really don't need to see him divorce her if staying married is only for the purpose to support her finacially and make sure she is comfortable. I think it's fair to stay out of their business and let him figure out what the next step will be.