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a friend of my boyfriend worked as a manager at one of the big strip clubs here and we would go visit him. it fun because we just sit there and he tells me how hot i am compared to them. neither of us have the desire to go there all the time but it was fun when our friend was the manager cause we'd get in free and get free drinks and all that.
they are kinda boring though. they don't move their bodies to the music, they all do the same moves, and they all look like their f.ucked up on drugs.
My bf has gone a few times....but I'm talking really occasionally, and it's just sorta because all his guy friends are going there to drink.
I went once, one of my girl friends came, we were the only chicks in the bar and we sat away from our bf's.....every guy in the bar was buying us drinks! It turned out to be a good night ;)
Strip bars don't bother me. I'd be more offended if my bf hid the fact he went.
some guys get all turned on when they see a woman as a customer in the strip club. this guy i was dating once got me a lap dance just to mess with me. i was so embarassed it was very uncomfortable. but the men were yelling and gauking. and i think the girl was doing it all for them anyway. yuck, lap dances. although i give my boyfriend lap dances sometimes he enjoys them quite a bit. but i wouldn't want one from some dirty stranger.
I have never and will never be with a man who goes to strip clubs. I dont agree with it at all. I think its wrong to go to a place and watch a woman you dont even know strip right in front of you, not to mention give you a lap dance. Its sick and its morally wrong and indecent quite frankly. And thats whether you have a gf or not.
If a guy is single and gets horny... he should go in the bathroom and relieve it.
My bf says he's not really into strip clubs, but he goes if his friends drag him along. He tells me if he goes there to. It originally never bothered me when we were first going out. I don't know why, but now it tends to bother me. It makes me feel like I'm not "enough" for him.
Fawn i totally understand what you are saying and tonite is the nite my man is going to the strip club its hurt so much inside. He says he may get a lap dance i know he loves me and i totally love him that why it hurt so much. The women are totally beautiful but he says he doesnt want a stripper we wants me.
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Originally Posted by Fawn
Wow, atleast someone has the same thought as me.Quote:
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
i can't stand when i see women benig gawked at or objectified in anyway. i wanna go because i'm curious, but i know i would get all offended because these women are allowing themselves to be treated like pieces of meat. we are more than flesh and bones.
Absolutely..
i am told that there are women who sometimes hire a male stripper ...
Hussain
I'm sure they do... I'm not one of them thats for sure hehehehe.
I know the feeling. Its one thing to be understanding and confident that this is just a phase and he just needs it every once in a while. BUT, going to a strip club is one thing and getting lap dances are another. I can stand the first part, but the fact that your bf is getting lap dances is disconcerning.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sami09
I would make a point to tell him that having a girl give him a lap dance is going to far. There has to be a line where he has to stop. Lap dancing in my book borders on cheating. Do what you feel is right. If he really cared he wouldn't need it in the first place.
I know he says he no big deal a lap dance. He doesnt go a lot. He is young 21 and he was even thinkin of going to an escort. if i gave my permission i know he needs some freedom and i totally love and trust him. and i totally know me loves me and wants to be with me. i am just sayin guys being guys sometimes are really hard.
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Originally Posted by Fawn
One thing I dont understand, why if a guy loves you he needs to look at other girls, especially stripping.....
Fawn,
if u can stand the first part ... he will automatically think that u can stand the second ...
Hussain