LOL Wong. Ask for a chance - thats funny. Give me a chance baby, please please please. Ha ha. Girls dont like needy guys. You put yourself in a place of victim by this - you show that it depends on her wether you are happy or not. Girls dont wana be in charge about anyones happines. They want man to take care of them. Naturaly girls are so much more passive than guys. They are basicaly just a things and we can do anything with them. Again look at the videos - they are made for entertainment but they show that real life is pretty simple. Again dont put yourself in place of victim but in place of leader of the situation. Only way how to do it is take an action. Power is in movement. Basicaly if a girl talking to you and respond to your smile thats all you need. You can say anything you want and do whatever. If it willl too much then she will look unhappy or even show resitance with her body language. Again you guys wouldnt be able to go so far cause you have to ignore girl pretty much before she push you away. Mostly girls just like you want to be touched and complimented, apreciated. Just feel the love. They are going crazy if your really have these feelings and you give it to her. Love is everywhere - in eyes, smile, voice, hands(body warm). When you want something from a girl you basicaly give it first to her and then recieve it back. Girls are emotional creatures they dont care about logic, they just care how you make them feel. They remember feelings better than actual happenings.
My point is - girls are pretty much open and allowing, its the guys who dont alow themself to do anything. You thing they are special but they just like you - they would hate not getting attention from someone who like them just because hes afraid to make a move. Imagine that stupid girl whos afraid to touch you or kiss you or compliment you just because shes afraid to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable. Mostly they are like - hey its just me why are you so shy?