So, is this what dating is really like...?

Printable View

Show 40 post(s) from this thread on one page

30-09-13, 10:32 AM
Indestructible

Quote:

Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Do you not have a social life? Hang out with friends? Have a hobby, an interest, something you like to do in your spare time? If you don't go out and do stuff then how can you meet someone? Socializing at an event, a pub, a concert, festival, museum, library, bookstore, coffee shop.....gives you the opportunity to meet, and chat with...then if you make a connection you ask for their number so you can ask them on a date. that's how it's done.

Nah, no real social life. Never been good at making friends. I've been trying, but it just doesn't happen. In particular, I've been trying to become better friends with some people I know for like the last year. Every now and then, they'll invite me to something, but that's rare; if I try to set something up and invite people, no one is ever interested. So, I don't really have people to go places with, and it just seems weird to me to go places and do things alone.

The hobbies and interests I have are mostly just things I enjoy by myself, nothing that really gets me out meeting people, unfortunately.
30-09-13, 10:41 AM
Agnus

Quote:

Originally Posted by Indestructible [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So, I don't really have people to go places with, and it just seems weird to me to go places and do things alone.

Go to volunteer. When I volunteered last time at the convent all the nuns became my friends especially Mother Superior.
30-09-13, 11:33 AM
vashti

Quote:

Originally Posted by Agnus [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Women are attracted on subconscious level. For example, I though how beautiful the lady at the gym was imagining how marvelous sex with her might be. And she somehow felt that. When she lost hope that I would ever approach, she started yelling at me right in the gym in front of her coach who looked extremely uncomfortable. But I had no intention to actually fk her. I didn't even know her name. On the other hand, that's how bitches let know they are in love.

Yeah, that's my strategy. I didn't realize it was so transparent, especially to old, unattractive women like yourself.
30-09-13, 11:59 AM
Agnus

Quote:

Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yeah, that's my strategy. I didn't realize it was so transparent, especially to old, unattractive women like yourself.

Why? I am a man. The guys always ask to give them massage and say that I am way too sexy. I've never known there are so many gays around like yourself.
30-09-13, 12:58 PM
Boisdevie

Quote:

Originally Posted by Indestructible [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Nah, no real social life. Never been good at making friends.

This kind of implies that your social skills are crap. Going on dates involves using your social skills. Ergo, if you have sod all social skills any dates you go on are a waste of time.
Fix yourself first.
30-09-13, 01:16 PM
YoungCosmo

What REALLY sucks about how dating works is, getting to know a girl first before asking her out means you LISTENED to her which means you're friendzone'ed/her emotional tampon. Once you actually give a shit about what women say, you're done for.
30-09-13, 01:16 PM
YoungCosmo

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boisdevie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Fix yourself first.

That's BS. A girlfriend could fix a guy.
30-09-13, 01:29 PM
basilandthyme

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

That's BS. A girlfriend could fix a guy.

Girlfriend wants a guy who's not broken
30-09-13, 01:30 PM
YoungCosmo

Then why do a lot of girls like guys who have been in prison? Or, at the least, have huge insecurity issues even worse than I do?
30-09-13, 01:30 PM
basilandthyme

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

What REALLY sucks about how dating works is, getting to know a girl first before asking her out means you LISTENED to her which means you're friendzone'ed/her emotional tampon. Once you actually give a shit about what women say, you're done for.

So, I seek you're back in dickhead mode. I really enjoyed reading what you were writing while you had that recent pleasant stage.
30-09-13, 01:35 PM
YoungCosmo

It's a fact. Women don't like their dates listening to them.
30-09-13, 01:35 PM
basilandthyme

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Then why do a lot of girls like guys who have been in prison? Or, at the least, have huge insecurity issues even worse than I do?

I don't know anyone who fits this description.
30-09-13, 01:36 PM
basilandthyme

No more help or support from me till you stop being a dickhead.
30-09-13, 01:38 PM
YoungCosmo

Quote:

Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't know anyone who fits this description.

Maybe it's different over there.
30-09-13, 01:41 PM
YoungCosmo

Quote:

Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

No more help or support from me till you stop being a dickhead.

What? It isn't my fault this is the way things are.

Show 40 post(s) from this thread on one page