Yep... exactly what I thought. Reality intersected with fantasy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lord Darkshire [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Yep... exactly what I thought. Reality intersected with fantasy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lord Darkshire [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
He has not visited before, never even mentioned it until now, and frankly I thought he was joking at first. But then it seemed he was seriously thinking about it, until I told him no.Quote:
Originally Posted by Exeter19 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I have no idea why he said "playdate", I thought that was weird too.
Why would you think your best friend would be joking about coming to visit you? What's so strange about your best friend coming to visit you?
Well the fact that he lives across the country, the fact that we have a chatting relationship and that I'm married, not to mention he hates to drive (has said this many times).Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But it's your best friend we're talking about, best friends enjoy seeing each other so they would naturally sacrifice part of their money and time (provided they had enough) to spend time with each other - especially if they live far away from each other.Quote:
Originally Posted by blue102 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What does this mean? Do you mean that you two have never actually met in real life? And you call a man you've never even spent actual time with your "best friend"?Quote:
the fact that we have a chatting relationship
Again - what does the fact that you're married have to do with your friendship with your best friend? I have close friends and the fact that I'm in a relationship has nothing to do with it. There's nothing weird about having close friends visit you while you're married, per se.Quote:
and that I'm married
Yep, never met in real life. We met on a forum about a hobby we share.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't know why but he seems to have a hangup about it.Quote:
Again - what does the fact that you're married have to do with your friendship with your best friend? I have close friends and the fact that I'm in a relationship has nothing to do with it. There's nothing weird about having close friends visit you while you're married, per se.
But why does it seem weird to you?Quote:
Originally Posted by blue102 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And why would you become so emotionally involved with a guy you've never even met, to the point of considering him your "best friend", over your own husband?
Besides my husband, he's my best guy friend. I also have a best girl friend who is not my husband.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Again: why would it seem weird to you due to the fact that you are married?
Because he's an internet best friend. And my hub doesn't want me to meet internet guys.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So you have no problem referring to an interned friend as "your best friend", but you think it's weird to meet him in real life. I understand that your husband doesn't want you to meet him, but I still don't get why you think it's weird.
I would like to meet him, but the fact that my husband is against it makes it weird :(Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't buy it. I think you are very much aware of the flirting that's been going on between you two, and you know perfectly well why both your "best friend" and your husband are upset about the situation. Stop pretending like you don't know, it's pointless anyway.
Cut off contact with this guy and next time don't become so emotionally involved with a guy other than your husband.
dont care for the ones who doesnt care u