Also, not concerning the case with this girl in particular, some men have enough money to rent an apartment and invite the girl ( or more than one girl, one after another) as though this is where they live. For instance, I have my own thread in this section here somewhere at the top too, where I met a guy from a different city. I met him on a dating site, He is a doctor around 30. I'm thinking of visiting him, So he may be single and everything may play out well, but there is always a possibility too that he is married and just renting that apartment, and if necessary may later even stay there overnight telling his wife that he has a night shift.. Sometimes it is very hard to tell.. You can't, and are not supposed to, spy on someone 24-7... If you do spy of them you're nuts, if you don't they may always do something with someone else, if They Choose to.. Sometimes all you can do is make sure not to ignore the obvious red-flags, but other than that just hope for the best..