*sighs* well, then what do you do that's interesting while at home? Do you have date nights? Do you have games you like to play and stimulate your competitive sides? Do you cook together while having a glass of wine and chatting about your day while away from one another? Do you listen to music you both enjoy? What other then just exist with one another do you two do together?
If you seduce a woman's mind, then her body will follow. If you're not doing anything with her then she's not going to be the least bit stimulated or seduced.