How could you have all the love forever?

In a relationship you need a healthy balance. You can't expect her to "follow" you. It either happens or it doesn't. You can't force anyone to do anything.

There are no guarantees in a relationship. Just enjoy it while it happens. If you worry too much about the future you will drive yourself nuts. Just live in the present and focus on that.

If your that insecure shes gonna break up with you again.....and thats a constant worry on your mind......then your either gonna drive yourself nuts or your gonna be that insecure where your gonna be seen as possessive.

Just enjoy and live in the "now".

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In a relationship you need a healthy balance. You can't expect her to "follow" you. It either happens or it doesn't. You can't force anyone to do anything.
There are no guarantees in a relationship. Just enjoy it while it happens. If you worry too much about the future you will drive yourself nuts. Just live in the present and focus on that.

If your that insecure shes gonna break up with you again.....and thats a constant worry on your mind......then your either gonna drive yourself nuts or your gonna be that insecure where your gonna be seen as possessive.

Just enjoy and live in the "now".

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nice words... but sometimes you should put some plans for future,, no???
remember the subject title? forever love!!!!!!

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Originally Posted by GrkScorp

she's a manipulative whackjob huh???

nway... no comment on that... but he's into her...

so he either sticks with her and finds a way to work things out...

or leaves and settles for an other degree of manipulation...

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Ah so you're the type that think it can always work out if you have enough determination.

I'll let you in on a secret.

You're wrong.

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Originally Posted by Harmony

nice words... but sometimes you should put some plans for future,, no???
remember the subject title? forever love!!!!!!

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"Forever Love" is a wonderful concept.....but lets be realistic. It doesn't always happen that way. I mean yes thats the plan but things happen. We either get past them or we move on. Its reality. So I say just take it a little bit at a time. If you worry too much about the future....your not gonna enjoy the present.

Ignoring the fact that I'd take my ex back in a heartbeat if she wanted me to, I think it's a bad idea to get back together at all. I mean she dumped you to begin with right, which means there was something about you or the situation that she didn't like. Have you changed much since then? Probably not.

Find someone who 100% wants to be with you.

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Originally Posted by equivo

Ignoring the fact that I'd take my ex back in a heartbeat if she wanted me to, I think it's a bad idea to get back together at all. I mean she dumped you to begin with right, which means there was something about you or the situation that she didn't like. Have you changed much since then? Probably not.

Find someone who 100% wants to be with you.

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the problem wasn't in me.. it was in her parents only... she didn't forgot me, even during the breaking time..

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Originally Posted by Ellynn

If your that insecure shes gonna break up with you again.....and thats a constant worry on your mind......then your either gonna drive yourself nuts or your gonna be that insecure where your gonna be seen as possessive.

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I agree with this. So unless you can remove this worry you obviously have, you will never have a strong relationship. Mis-trust is quite often a reason for relationships ending.

Your friends are probably concerned about things they saw in the relationship which made you unhappy, and dont want to see you go down that path again. I doubt their concerns have much to do with your "she's done it once-she'll do it again" concerns.

I also agree that this will make her think she has control over you.

Look at her littler finger... Are you wraped around it?

Mick