He's not telling me to do it, he suggested it and I declined because I told him how I felt, and he says it's okay and that I don't have to do it. And no, he won't be sleeping with other women because that's not who he is. He's committed to me for life and he has no interest in other girls. And yes, he is possessive and protective, but I'm worse than he is but I still agree to it. Earlier today he suggested a FFM threesome and I semi agreed to it, and I'm possessive and protective of him. He enjoys thinking about me being dominated by him and another person and I'll enjoy the extra attention. When I asked him why he wanted another female with us, he say it was the same reason I wanted a MFM threesome (extra attention and he wants to see me be dominant). He does Love me and he does see me as his, he just wants to show off and prove to other men that I'm his.
I mean, I do understand why you'd think that way. Most people that I talk to about him think the same thing. But he and I are very committed to each other and we both trust each other, and I believe that that's all that matters.