I already decided for myself that I won't sleep with him. My rule is dating at least 2 months and getting engaged in different activities , meeting each other's friends and family members. And I made it very very clear for him that I'm not that type of a girl and that if he is just looking for a girl to lay with , this is not going to be me. I also agreed to go on a date with him only if he acts like a chivalrous gentleman with me which he did. He also told me that he is looking for something real and that we'll wait until we are both ready before sex. But he was giving mixed signals also cos he suggested that I'd come over to his place to watch a movie and he said we'd only kiss but I said "no I'm a lady and I don't like things to be rushed." and he accepted it.
What else can I say.. I've met about 20 guys over last year and had dates with them ,I dated about 10 guys over last year too (but we didn't' have sex) And this guy is the first confident guy I've met in a year. Cos others would take anything from me and I wasn't even attracted to them.
And this guy is so calm and relaxed all the time. So confident. And he went for a kiss on the first date and it felt great.
Also this guy could walk into any bar and pick the prettiest girl any time so why is he wasting his time with me? Just cos he likes a challenge once in a while I assume?