I agree with this, but it's not always possible for all mothers to have that luxury. Money is the issue. The kids have to be provided for, and whose responsibility is that? The mother's boyfriend? I would have serious problems taking anywhere near $20,000 from a man. (Yeah, 20 grand, I added it up. And that doesn't include the ring or vacations or anything like that - that was just money he handed over to her.) I can't think very highly of someone who would do that while not bothering to get a job.
Kaius, you don't have any issues with that at all?