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Originally Posted by anachronistic [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's understandable and actually okay to have a say in how to resolve issues in a relationship especially on topics like this one. She needs to understand that a serious relationship will have to include the other person when they feel they have a personal problem they are dealing with....not in all situations but certainly this one. He does not need to feel like a doormat. Be sure to not give off a vibe that you need control all the time though…or she will feel like a doormat. I say let her have complete control on this one...this time. You will have a discussion with her so there will be not another time.