Well, yea. I think we're all capable of making decisions after the age of 3. (will I take that cookie I was told I couldn't have or will I not take that cookie I was told I couldn't have) :o) Obviously... OP was not capable of making a decision that she would be happy with. Him being the mature adult. he should have told her to go go go away, cum again another day if he was a decent adult who needn't take advantage of every opportunity that presented itself that is.