Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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So? I agree the mother's behaviour is insane. But that doesn't change anything about what I said about your attitude about it. You need to flip your thinking, IMO. Stop being so defensive and maybe try to imagine how your SO might be feeling about things. IF you are truly interested in patching things up, that is. I'll be more clear, btw: I didn't say you are shitty. I don't know you from Adam. But making decisions that sound close to forcing your SO to choose b/t her family and you is definitely a shitty thing to do. Either you are doing this, or you aren't. You know your own mind, I hope. Shrug.
Regulars here understand I am making suggestions for you to solve your problem. If you try what I suggest you will start to see different behaviour from her. But that is a completely different issue from whether you want to or not. Which I have no idea about and only you can decide. Good luck.