Well it can't be that abnormal because I'm a twenty one year old guy and I've never kissed a girl and I've had plenty of chances (most of which I've wimped out of).. There are plenty of us shy people out there :P. Just try to go a bit further each day. Also a mistake I kept making was that I kept putting all my eggs in one basket. Talk to a couple potential dates. Finally, work out specifically cardio exercises. When people come into contact with the opposite gender adrenalin is released just like when you go running. If you are more used to the adrenalin it's easier to talk (+ as I found running gets you in good shape too :P). In any case I hope to solve my kissing virginity problem soon, good luck :P.