OMG...are you kidding me...shes TELLING YOU HOW TO FIX IT!!! how can you expect her to just let this go a second time? Ive been cheated on and im still with him...because he did what I needed to get past it...and has kept up his side of the agreement. If you feel you are lacking the "attention" or the "ego boost" from your own wife, you need to communicate that with her. give her a chance to give you what you need!!!