Yeah I can see that but it's only been two weeks since we broke up, not even. Me and a recent ex years ago broke up for two months and dated again for 3 years after until we finally ended it for good. I'm not saying I'm not following my own advice to try and leave her be and me do my own thing but if originally she wanted her space and time to herself I don't know if two weeks will really help her too much.
She texted me this morning and said she wouldn't feel awkward if I came to her birthday and that she just wouldn't want me to not have fun, after I told her to just enjoy herself and I'll call and wish her happy birthday. I mentioned in previous posts that although she doesn't use her facebook anymore she uses instagram and we follow each other. The majority of pictures she posts are all with her best friend or other female friends she spends time with. I feel like its normal for her to surround herself with her friends after our break up. She hasn't posted anything to make me feel suspicious of other guys or anything...yet.
Either way, whether she's trying to move on or isn't it still doesn't mean anything in terms with her ever wanting me back. So as I've been doing I'm trying to stay as clear as I can force myself.