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Originally posted by mateja
am is so disgustingly ugly?
You look average buddy... if you'd smile instead of frown you'd look a lot better. But I guess your post really isn't about your looks, its, moreso, about why you don't get women. I'll tell you, you confidence sucks and you have an external locus of control. First off, you seem afraid to make the approach or approach very little and don't do well. Second of all. you have an external locus of control. This means that when something goes wrong, instead of focusing on something you are responsible (the way you act), you focus on something that you have little control over (the way your face is built). From your quote (reprinted above) I can see a lot of resentment over lack of success and you blame it on your looks. Mateja, you're no Brad Pitt... but you're no Joe Pesci either. You're average... girls wouldn't dump you because they thought you weren't goodlooking enough. Your hardships lie with you, not how you look. Its time for you to internalize your locus of control and start accepting responsibility for things in your life. If you don't accept who you are, how can you change it?