Wow, I missed out on some juicy stuff, haha!! Oh so now we have two sisters ; interesting. However, you can say whatever you want about your sister being smart - that's your opinion and we all have our own. You don't have to agree with us and we certainly don't have to agree with you. Don't bring domestic crap into threads, I didn't think this was some sort of family - love - community, you know.
Anyway, you said - lifes short and you're young ; you're right it is short, but that doesn't mean you have to rush into things, ultimately you can do what you want to do! I was just suggesting that you should wait until you see one another and see what happens, no point in getting your hopes up.