gf had a fling...

i am 24 and she's 23...

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Originally Posted by heartbroke [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

i am 24 and she's 23...

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Oh shit! are you people from Illinois suburbs!? cause I think I am the colleague! just messing. I know a person here with the exact same problem lol. I mean identical.

If I were you I would leave her, but I am not you so you have to decide what you is going to do. Listen to you.

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Oh shit! are you people from Illinois suburbs!? cause I think I am the colleague! just messing. I know a person here with the exact same problem lol. I mean identical.

If I were you I would leave her, but I am not you so you have to decide what you is going to do. Listen to you.

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ha...your words soothe me abit...

My cousin has a kid who used to look part black. Me and my other cousins used to joke around that she had a fling with a black dude, and that was the result.

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

My cousin has a kid who used to look part black. Me and my other cousins used to joke around that she had a fling with a black dude, and that was the result.

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What was the result?

The kid that looked half black, lol

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The kid that looked half black, lol

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......but you know, if the kid looked half black SHE DID have a thing with a black dude...right? It is not just a coincidence, sorta of like if your kid looks half Asian...that is not funny..the girl is either Asian or she was with an Asian man. Unless the kid tans like crazy.

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Originally Posted by heartbroke [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

i am in a very very complicated situation. i've found out that my gf of almost 3 yrs had a fling with this guy, her colleague. i only found out when they ended this thru checking the chat log. the guy is attached, but my girl lied that she had been cheated by her bf, that's me. she is...or rather was a very obedient, shy girl. this is the first time this thing happened. she told me that at the point of time, she was being "playful" and she still loves me. they started to get closer, holding hands, kissing for abt 3-4 days before they decided that it is very wrong, and ended it.

girls, pls tell me - what shd be my decision? of coz i still love her if not i won't be posting this. i decide that wateva u girls advised me will be my last decision. thanks.

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dude,im not a girl but ive been thru this,i would say forgive her but forget about her and find another,if you can handle her holding hands and kissing other guys then fine,give it another shot,but if it hurts you,i think that staying with her will bring about more pain.

No OV, my cousin is Calabrian (south Italy) and her husband is Sicilian, so the kid only LOOKED half black

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

......but you know, if the kid looked half black SHE DID have a thing with a black dude...right? It is not just a coincidence, sorta of like if your kid looks half Asian...that is not funny..the girl is either Asian or she was with an Asian man. Unless the kid tans like crazy.

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Could be a recessive gene, ya know...

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Could be a recessive gene, ya know...

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Being black? lol

Haven't you had any exposure to genetics in school yet, OV?

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Haven't you had any exposure to genetics in school yet, OV?

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For her to have the recessive gene of the trait black someone at least in the family tree had a fling with a black man/woman.

Of course. That is how you get a recessive gene.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Of course. That is how you get a recessive gene.

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So his attempt to joke around wasn't a joke afterall.