no! that's not what I ment. ugh, I think it's just new york, I haven't met anyone who's just, I don't know what the word is, but I know it when I see it, and I haven't seen it yet. I mean, i've seen guys who are very attractive and just simply amazing, but they're over 30. but that's not in my range, I would feel very strange dating someone 10 years older than me, I don't think i'm ready for that, or ever will be.
I see what you're saying. guys who act silly once in a while are cute, but guys who are childish, period, are not.