Originally Posted by
missinglinkisp
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thank you cain.
i have been with 4.
3 were long term, was ven engaged once but broke it off after finding out she cheated. i was never really as close to them as i am to my current gf. i do not live with her yet,we have officially been together just short of 7 months,but i have known her a long time, i will move in shortly.she said on her own again today that she wants me to. i own an internet company,and make close to 5k per month. she has been taking care of the children on her own for some time now. once moving in we will share money,i have already given her access to my accounts. although she doesnt really use them. shes not after me for money,she has plenty on her own, but i realize having children and living togther will change things. i bought a new station wagon,and am preparing for this. i am very caring for her and the kids,they all like me,the oldest is a boy,and we get along great,he really likes me. their father wasnt good to them at all,was very mean. so they get along great with me. they behave well really for kids that age. they hav moments of course but what kid doesnt. but they are not disrespectful to me or anyone else,they are very good kids. im not worried about the fact im only 13 years older than him,i have told her he as is like a son to me as well as the other son and daughter. im very serious about this as is she,if we wernt i would never make another child with her. im not desperate,i actualy have sent other girls away........but i do like being with her,and dont want to b without her.i have not cryd as result of anything anyone said here.....i have gotten pissed off tho. most all i have heard is oppinions of why its stupid or wont work or to end it.......which i wont. i do really appreciate your response cain. helpful responses and oppinions like yours are what i was looking for.