I'd like to write her a letter, but...

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Originally Posted by jinx343 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

seems like she is enjoying her time with her bf....

so why dont you give it a try? go out.. hang out withyour firends and give some girls a chance to get to know you and you get to know them as well.. you dont have to have an exclusive date, you could go out on group dates if you feel awkward doing it for the first time. it's one way of knowing how you truly feel. plus, sometimes, you meet great people in situations and places you least expect. you just need to open your eyes more to see the big picture.

just like you not letting her know how you feel when she was still single... you will also never know what's in store for you unless you take the first step.. try... get to know some girls.. who knows?:)

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Yeah, I guess you right, but I wanted to see if there anything I can do to stay in touch with her (oh, well, to get in touch), and the own way to do so is to sand her a letter asking about her trip... and then to see how is going... but I'm too afraid of her answer... and also I don't know how to write it in the best way (to get positive back letter)...

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Wait till she comes back from her vacation and then ring her and ask her how her vacation was and whether she'd like to go with you and your friends to __________ (fill the gap).

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She backs tomorrow, Thursday, I'm too afraid of giving her a call, and of course asking her to go with our friends somewhere... and I'm pretty sure she turns it down, not because she doesn't want to, however, she spent lots of money out there...

Nothing wrong with staying friends with her, but if you continue to fixate on her and don't open your mind to the possibility of dating other girls, you will be holding yourself back.

Like Jinx said, go out there and meet other girls. There are probably girls out there you'll even like better than the one you're currently fixated on. You never know until you try.

Good luck!

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we aren't friends yet, we were class-mate, of curse we had some chats but it wasn't something special, now I'm really disappointed that I couldn't say something else out of the issue, even to give any kind of compliments...

and no when I'm about sanding her the letter (the friendly one) I'm scared as hell, what she will thinking, will she write me back, what will her answer, and all that stuff...

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Originally Posted by TheSameOldStory [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She backs tomorrow, Thursday, I'm too afraid of giving her a call, and of course asking her to go with our friends somewhere...

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You're too afraid to give her a call, you'll be too afraid to call her on a real date, to kiss her, to hold her hand... Man, you've got to work on your self-esteem. Girls don't want to date ostriches. Don't duck your head in the sand.

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Originally Posted by TheSameOldStory [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

and I'm pretty sure she turns it down, not because she doesn't want to, however, she spent lots of money out there...

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Then invite her to something affordable. Then again, if she spent so much money abroad it means she has the money, so she can pay for one more thing. Anyways, you could invite her just to hang with you and your class friends.
And so what if she turns you down? Invite her again.

Oh, well, I gotta try, after all I'll never know if I don't try... thanks anyway, I hope for the best....

And if you guys didn't really know each other, how could you be in love with her?

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Originally Posted by Cain [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And if you guys didn't really know each other, how could you be in love with her?

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magic.

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

magic.

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That's some Harry Potter shit right there.