One more bit of advice for you Champy...
Listen to Carl, Cain, and The Greek but don't feel like you have to do things any particular way, you should find what works for you. Trying to immitate Straus or Durden will make you just that, an imitator. The reason those guys' game works so well for them is because its their game, and they have tried many techniques rejecting some and using others.
And one more bit of advice. Stop saying stuff like "I hope I get the first date" and "hopefully I'll get her number" She may look cute but do you really know her? You mentioned that you talk a little bit in between your soccer practice with her.
Use the first phone call as an oppurtunity to screen her out. You may save yourself the time of waisting your time on a girl who doesn't measure up to your standards.
Tell me, what is so good about this chick that makes you hope to go on a date with her?