Feel Like Sharing My Fail Attempt Tonight, LOL

ecojeanne says:

"or one can just assume there are dumbasses who say funny things, i most likely would have responded smirking with 'i'm the first? wow! (sarcastically) so how many before me said they did?' and then likely would have stared placidly eyebrows slightly arched questioningly at him awaiting a response...whether i was interested or not"

why would you jump to the conclusion that he's dumb when you all you know is that you're in the minority of girls who don't carry a highlighter? You're not even giving him the benefit of the doubt that maybe his intentions were genuine or he was trying to make light of the situation. It seems like you purposely assign guys a lower value based on superficial reasons to make yourself feel better. "Oh, he's attractive so he must be dumb." "I can't believe he asked me for a highlighter and then had the audacity to joke about it. He must be stupid." Lame.

Linli says:

"What exactly does a low perception entail?"

a lot of guys think girls are irrational and dumb. Some of the responses in this thread support that perception.

"I don't think that misombra had to "find" some way to make you look dumb..."

kewl =]

Aeradalia says:

"No offense... but it's difficult as all hell talking to women when you're interested."

ahh, someone who gets it! I didn't make this thread to rant. I wanted to share my experience with guys who might not be as successful with women to let them know that rejection happens to all of us. Big deal. Move on. At least I tried. If you never take a shot, then you will never make a basket.

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Originally Posted by Linli [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

What exactly does a low perception entail? :detective
I don't think that misombra had to "find" some way to make you look dumb...

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he has a low perception of us because some of us don't fall for stupid lines and other pick up strategies. other, more mature, enhanced men would probably perceive that as a good thing.

she's probably kissed frogs already and she's on to the prince's.

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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

No offense... but it's difficult as all hell talking to women when you're interested.

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That's true.

I'm glad Neo posted this. Because it's so easy to sulk when you fail with a potential date and say to yourself, "Well, I bet if I had a top body she wouldn't treat me this way". Wrong! What we often forget is, rejection is part of the dating experience, even the best of them still get rejected. It's just something that everyone has to learn and accept.

misombra says:

"he has a low perception of us because some of us don't fall for stupid lines and other pick up strategies. other, more mature, enhanced men would probably perceive that as a good thing."

now now, little girl. There's no need to get all butthurt b/c I would never approach you.

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ecojeanne says:

"or one can just assume there are dumbasses who say funny things, i most likely would have responded smirking with 'i'm the first? wow! (sarcastically) so how many before me said they did?' and then likely would have stared placidly eyebrows slightly arched questioningly at him awaiting a response...whether i was interested or not"

why would you jump to the conclusion that he's dumb when you all you know is that you're in the minority of girls who don't carry a highlighter? You're not even giving him the benefit of the doubt that maybe his intentions were genuine or he was trying to make light of the situation. It seems like you purposely assign guys a lower value based on superficial reasons to make yourself feel better. "Oh, he's attractive so he must be dumb." "I can't believe he asked me for a highlighter and then had the audacity to joke about it. He must be stupid." Lame.

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no in actual fact i would be giving him an opening and chance to prove to me he has a brain by him hopefully coming up with something smart/funny in response to my question. is it too much to ask for neo? c'mon a bit of a challenge and you wimper away? you're no good then

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misombra says:

"he has a low perception of us because some of us don't fall for stupid lines and other pick up strategies. other, more mature, enhanced men would probably perceive that as a good thing."

now now, little girl. There's no need to get all butthurt b/c I would never approach you.

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oh shux. of course you wouldn't. little boys have always been afraid to approach me.

ecojeanne says:

"no in actual fact i would be giving him an opening and chance to prove to me he has a brain by him hopefully coming up with something smart/funny in response to my question. is it too much to ask for neo? c'mon a bit of a challenge and you wimper away? you're no good then"

haha, why do you say "no" when you prefaced your last post with "or one can just assume there are dumbasses"? And what makes you think I would run away if you asked me a question? I wouldn't have approached you if I didn't want to talk to you. Of course I would answer. Think before you speak.

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ecojeanne says:

"no in actual fact i would be giving him an opening and chance to prove to me he has a brain by him hopefully coming up with something smart/funny in response to my question. is it too much to ask for neo? c'mon a bit of a challenge and you wimper away? you're no good then"

haha, why do you say "no" when you prefaced your last post with "or one can just assume there are dumbasses"? And what makes you think I would run away if you asked me a question? I wouldn't have approached you if I didn't want to talk to you. Of course I would answer. Think before you speak.

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in fairness it was a dumbass answer you gave about her being the *first* so you did leave yourself open to be interpreted that way. however as you can see i would have given you the opportunity to redeem yourself. so redeem yourself, what would you have responded with then?

ecojeanne says:

"in fairness it was a dumbass answer you gave about her being the *first* so you did leave yourself open to be interpreted that way. however as you can see i would have given you the opportunity to redeem yourself. so redeem yourself, what would you have responded with then?"

I would answer "7.3"

lol..you had me at hello

I agree with Neo it doesn't matter what you say.

I have a mate that uses, ''did you know a triangle can fit into a cricle but a square can't fit into a triangle?'' means nothing, of course. But he does pretty well with it.

The other night I was out, and just feeling a bit drunk and really confident. I was walking past this window and I saw this beautiful girl sitting on the other side. And I looked at her for a second, then I banged on the window and pointed at her (I was pretty drunk). Then I walked outside, and I was talking to some friends, and she came over!! haha, I never would have expected that to work. haha.... girls.

You would have scared the shit out of me. I would have came over just to slap you. :P

You know what... I rarely get approached by guys and I wonder why? I'm too nervous to say I'm interested in them.
All though recently I did tell someone on the internet I crushed on them.
Sometimes I will see a guy stare... look my way... but they won't say anything!!! What the hell is wrong with me? :(

yeah, it's funny, maybe guys are intimidated by your boobs?