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I told her I didn't like the idea of them together and that I thought she should have told me about their little outing. I also apologized for not coming to her sooner to express my concerns and that I should have handled it better. So here I am saying sorry and she says nothing. She claims that she's done nothing wrong since nothing happened. She doesn't think this is a big deal. To respond to that I say okay, I understand how you could THINK it's not a big deal but I'm telling you that it is. She said "I'm sorry you feel that way". That's her apology. I tell her that it's annoying that I'm sitting here apologizing for the way I handled it but you sit there and claim that you've done nothing wrong and you don't dare see how I might feel about this, nor do you apologize. She kept saying she has nothing to apologize for since nothing happened. She never thinks she's done wrong. This isn't the first thing that only I apologize and she doesn't, when we were BOTH wrong.
But either way. She told me she wouldn't move in on him without at least speaking to me first. And nothing did happen and according to her now, it won't happen. She says I should trust her. That's a whole other story.
It was non-progressive because you both said your piece, she didn't care much for yours and you were unhappy with her refusal to see herself at fault, but sure, guess I misread the "move in" as in moving into the same place if they get serious, not to "make a move".