Originally Posted by doppelgaenger
well what you are looking for then is a simple daemon that gives you remote access to her computer. you will want a daemon called a trojan. as far as installing it to her computer against her will, you will have to write up a program in cpp or java or whatever that installs it transparently when she opens an email. you can embed it all into an email.
once the trojan gives you remote access, you can install anything you want, as well as view her files through a terminal. with another program you could copy the files to your computer and view them in your gui. or i guess if you really want to observe her while she is on the computer you could install tightvnc.
if you dont have any luck with that google for how to tunnel an exploit through ssh and do that to the yahoo server.
hopefully you have her ip addresses and all that shit. if you dont know anything about any of that just google for it. there is shit all over the net.