I assume she's talking about major deal-breakers. Like if the person is a drug addict and you're not, or if the person wants 6 kids and you don't want any, or if the person hates animals and you love them, etc. And you know, sometimes you meet a person, and within 10 minutes you realize you can't stand them. It's possible for 2 people to be so incompatible that it's obvious right away.Quote:
what sort of things can you determine about a potential partner to deem them fit or unfit fairly quickly?