Originally Posted by
WouldLikeToKnow
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Seems to me that if you want to keep these kind of girls around then maybe just keep doing what you're doing. Be nice, pull back. Be nice, pull back. You don't have to be a complete a**hole to make that work. Just keep them on their toes, showing your nice side but not always giving it. Just disappear for a few days, just enough to make them wonder. It's hard, I know, I struggle with this but when I look back, every guy that I've been 'difficult' with wants me. It doesn't matter how much I reject them, even blatantly, they still try. It's like they want me even more. Even boyfriends have come closer when they felt me 'pulling away'. Now I never did this to play a game, it's just the way I genuinely feeling. Whenever I like someone too much and am too giving they start to treat me like crap. I guess it's just human nature to want the thing that's just out of reach. It's sad that we can't just be completely ourselves but I suppose the trick is to never let the other person feel they truly 'have' you. That's when they stop trying...