Originally Posted by
PawlsToTheWall
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HAHAHA let's see your license pal. I don't have ups and downs, it's just kinda a depressing stage right now. We are great parents and the kids aren't any the wiser about what's going on. I don't see why you think I am so wrong for wanting to help her. I don't want her to see other men. That was just like an experiment to see if she would. She figured a lot of stuff out about herself and is very proactive about changing. She is medicated and looking for a therapist.
I already told you guys, she isn't going to see other men. I'm not going to let her do that, and she wants me to protect her from it. Some dude has been flirting with her online and she told me about it. She tells me everything cuz she has faith that I'll know what to do. I talked to the guy and he backed off. The biggest prob with our thing was lack of communication. We both tried to be a person that the other wanted us to be. Now we tell each other everything, even the ugly details.
The new stance is helping her, not encouraging her. I didn't realize this was a result of her bipolar disorder. I was feeling weak cuz of the break up and that is the only reason I let her believe I was ok with it. I wasn't ok with it. I'm feeling like my old self again so quit telling me all this whiny s*** about me being so f***ed up and needing therapy. I just wanted to see what people had to say about this situation, but really, I know how to solve my own problems.
Man, I hope she doesn't regret the piercings or tattoos I let her get during this thing....I just thought she really wanted these things. I didn't know it was a manic episode.
I've done a lot of research about her illness and I know what we have to do. So caaaalllllm down, for real dude.