Straight woman... same-sex crush?

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15-09-11, 04:55 PM
nerdy_guy

[url=http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/attraction/hormones-learning-the-rules-of-attraction-1044079.html]Hormones: Learning the rules of attraction - Attraction, Love & Sex - The Independent[/url]

The first part says that it affects who we are.

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It's the latest research to show the effects of hormones on mood and behaviour. Other hormones have been linked to depression, stress, anxiety, forgetfulness, social bonding, fatherhood, lying, generosity, romance and trust, as well as sexual relationships.

Under the oestrogen section this was stated.
"Oestradiol, one of the oestrogens, also helps women to be more attractive to men, according to a Harvard study."

For me, that would translate that there is more than one kind, and maybe that affects attraction. I know us guys have estrogens as well but not that much. Although I can't pinpoint exactly if that is the hormone that controls attraction
15-09-11, 11:35 PM
bulrush

OP, it's normal, but not talked about much. Try to start her off with "I think I'm bi-curious. What about you?" Then try to steer the conversation to "Have you ever been attracted to a woman?" If she's open-minded, then try "What would you think if I was attracted to you?"

Nice, easy, gentle progression. Don't have any expectations, just gather information. She might have a crush on YOU! :)

Go for it. You are not hurting anyone, and it is not healthy to repress who you are.

Nerdy_Guy and others. This is not a discussion about which sexuality is "right", it is a question the OP had. Please take your discussion about "My god is better than yours because..." somewhere else.
16-09-11, 12:36 AM
Anaruz omerghad

To that sir who said there is no God it's her body she is free.Everything is governed by laws set by God to organise human life if we each of us try to gratify his/her lusts we will live in chaos and disorder.And we will look like animals in the bush who are only concerned about biological needs so who likes to become obsessed only by his/her lower body?
16-09-11, 03:45 AM
Benni

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Originally Posted by Anaruz omerghad [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

To that sir who said there is no God it's her body she is free.Everything is governed by laws set by God to organise human life if we each of us try to gratify his/her lusts we will live in chaos and disorder.

oh jeez! I feel ill. [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
16-09-11, 04:24 AM
bulrush

Jeebus gonna getcha! AayyyyyyyyMEN!

Boards usually don't allow religious talk. What's going on here?
16-09-11, 07:40 AM
Evo1114

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Originally Posted by Anaruz omerghad [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

To that sir who said there is no God it's her body she is free.Everything is governed by laws set by God to organise human life if we each of us try to gratify his/her lusts we will live in chaos and disorder.And we will look like animals in the bush who are only concerned about biological needs so who likes to become obsessed only by his/her lower body?

What's wrong with animals in the bush? We did evolve from apes, so obviously we are going to share some characteristics of animals in the bush.
16-09-11, 08:35 AM
vampiress

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Oh, and that is why ALL husbands leave their wives because they like to play other people's ding dongs. What an amazing argument!

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I couldn't help myself
16-09-11, 10:46 AM
Sonrisa

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Jeebus gonna getcha! AayyyyyyyyMEN!

Boards usually don't allow religious talk. What's going on here?

if you haven't noticed yet, any kind of talk is allowed and welcome here
17-09-11, 12:12 AM
bulrush

I checked the rules just before I posted my last message, and religious talk is specifically prohibited on these forums. Just sayin. I mention this because this post is drifting off topic with no value added.

From the sticky in this subforum:

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7) Religious and Political topics have no place on this forum. If you would like information or to ask someone's opinion on religious doctrine, feel free to ask. Debates, complaints, or flaming each other regarding religious ideals will be deleted or locked immediately. There are a thousand other forums out there where you can debate all you want. Loveforum will not be it.

OP: I just talked to god himself about your question and he gave me the thumbs up. :) And I didn't even use any hallucinogens.
17-09-11, 10:52 AM
Sonrisa

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Originally Posted by bulrush [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I checked the rules just before I posted my last message, and religious talk is specifically prohibited on these forums. Just sayin. I mention this because this post is drifting off topic with no value added.

From the sticky in this subforum:

OP: I just talked to god himself about your question and he gave me the thumbs up. :) And I didn't even use any hallucinogens.

it depends on who's the admin at the time. the admins nowadays really don't care.
17-09-11, 03:16 PM
MerryH

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Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

it depends on who's the admin at the time. the admins nowadays really don't care.

Can an admin update the rules, then? It would be nice to know what is and what isn't allowed.

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