So does he support you financially since your a full-time student or do you have a part-time job?
When are you going to graduate?
Are you scared to leave him because your unsure about your future?
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So does he support you financially since your a full-time student or do you have a part-time job?
When are you going to graduate?
Are you scared to leave him because your unsure about your future?
he might be able to buy things but look at yourself - you are not happy are you?Quote:
Originally Posted by hopegrace [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
there are plenty of messed up people. Know one person - serial dater if you like, after saying they had a partner but they didnt like them much, said it was better to be with someone than be alone - HELLO ISSUES. They also went on to say how much rent they had saved in this sham relationship.
Saya,Quote:
Originally Posted by Saya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yes, I have been a student for the past 3 years. I do not work. I depend on him emotionally and financially. He gives me as much money as I need, but it does not what i want to do all the time. I am graduating this spring. I will have B.S. in Accounting, but it is not one of the best schools, it is just OK.
I started lately thinking about Masters's program which will require 1.5 years more. He sayas that it is completely up to me; if i want to stay at school he will totally supports me and will pay for it. (and then he goes and cheats probably).
So if I want to move out, I need to find a job and place to live. Of course, it does make me so stressed out that on top of it I am afraid to fail school (and i am a very good student). I keep thinking and thinking.... His mom is like my best friend; she knows everything and she does not want me to leave. I am so attached to his family that I am afraid to lose them. Remember that I am in the US by myself. It is my home, but my family is back to my native country and I have to see them only once a year.
It is not true about me. I LOVE HIM!!! I had a previous BF which was more successful than him, but I had no strong feelings, so I left him and was single. Never took a penny from him!!Quote:
Originally Posted by stuckies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Please, do not judge me as being in "sham relationship"
hey, I moved out to a new city by myself. People do it all the time, you're stronger than you think.
You're a good student which means you're smart. Yes?
Why do you feel it's ok to be cheated on/lied to?
If he really love you that much then why hasn't he propose to you? You two have been together for 6years... that is long enough to get engaged.
How old is he and how old are you?
So you two live together?
After you graduate in Spring, what are you going to do ? Are you going to look for a job or study more?
that's right it's not a sham, he spends money on you to keep you off his case and he's banging other women. Sounds perfect. Why are you defending him?Quote:
Originally Posted by hopegrace [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
what would he have to do to make you leave?
I moved out to a completely new country!Quote:
Originally Posted by stuckies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Where are you from?
I dont know why he did not propose...Quote:
Originally Posted by Saya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I am 29 & he is 36. We live together for 5 years.
Yes, i graduate in Spring, and i have a dilemma...
I want to go to Grad School if I am with him. If I decide to leave him, I need to find a job...So dont know what to do.
I am RussianQuote:
Originally Posted by Saya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Stuckies,Quote:
Originally Posted by stuckies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's great that you are such a strong person and could have been able to walk out from the man who treats you super nice but occasionally cheats. Like I said, if there were no strong feelings involved, I would give this cheater a good lesson. ( that's why I pray GOD to take away those feelings from my heart) but I do have feelings and I don't want to lose him
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LOL...If you're so attractive, why are you so worried about not finding anyone else?....BTW the longer you hang around this guy, the harder it will be. Do yourself a favour, and put some distance between you and this jerk ASAP.Quote:
Originally Posted by hopegrace [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Too add...are you chasing a green card?
I hope that you read my previous post dude- I go to visit my family every year! Btw I am Not chasing a green card because I am American citizenQuote:
Originally Posted by rafterman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]