Yep, true.. I couldn`t feel that deeper love, only frustration.. I don`t believe the sparkle wears off completely if you are with the right person, atleast I want to believe that way. It might not be as bright as it was during the 1st year of relationship naturally, it`s the effect of new love that wears off, but the sparkle still needs to be there, alive, showing up often enough to make you remember why you fell in love with your partner in the first place. That`s what I believe.