I was formerly a pot dealer. You're from Canada so I shouldn't have to explain the difference. Now I'm a nerdy computer programmer and have been for years..what does my job have to do with anything? As far as guaranteeing this chick flips out..I think you know why and I already said that it's a vindictive move. She played him, and is now back to play some more. He should crush her.
Actually, my perception of self and what I prescribe, are perfectly congruent. I respect you, you respect me, and we'll have a great time. You disrespect me, then you've lost my respect, and I'll treat you as I see fit, accordingly. I'm a generous and helpful friend, and I have no problem going to great lengths or making sacrifices to help my friends. I'm a person of extremes and I do everything in equal measures, so if you're my friend I'll go to great lengths to help you, if you're my enemy, I'll go to great lengths to harm you. Of course this attitude says more about me that the other person...its MY attitude. I'm glad you don't "stoop to their level", but I don't mind getting my hands dirty.
You're wrong about abusive behavior too, unless we're talking strictly those who have started something with me. I have no desire to control anyone else's feelings or actions and as I said earlier I constantly give of myself to my friends; I just don't mind conflict at the same time. I'm not hurt or angry, but if someone does hurt or anger me, I'm probably going to try to inflict the same. Sticking around to hurt someone back is not limited to schoolchildren..I have a fun, rewarding life, where I support myself fully, but if you **** with me, you're gonna get ****ed with right back.