Her dad passed when she was 1.5 years old. Her mum raised her by herself and has never approved of any of her BF. No, I get the whole gut instinct thing. If I go back 2 months, she had reservations, but she was willing to have a test drive. That is what we called it least ;) She was all up to visit and see what happened after that. Even on the morning that it all fell apart, everything was good. But after a visit from her mum, all went bad. So whatever her mum had to say really affected her.
Its just hard to accept that now she doesn't even want to meet and see what happens. Like I said, she is allowing her feelings now to dictate how she will always feel. I think its messed up, but Im gonna have to accept it and do my best to move on AFTER my divorce is final. And in my opinion, calling kids "baggage" is kinda harsh dont you think? Would you want to be called that?