I see what you all are saying. Thank you for that! I feel very stupid and naive. When he apologized through text, I kept talking to him. He said he wants to meet me and I should let him know when I am free. I told him, but he could not make it that day. He sent me a few nice messages (he does not call). I don't know what to think about him anymore.
Part of me screams "wake up, what kind of guy would pull out his salami on first date!?", but there is also other part which likes him because he is handsome, sweet and nice and can't believe there can be anything wrong about him since some of a people I know love him.
So I am pretty much stuck. I can't even stop thinking about him and it makes me sad. Sad because I think he may not like me the way I like him and also because I do not listen to logic part of my brain.
For those who said that I like what he was doing...I liked kissing and hugging. Soft touching from him. But I really did not like the way he groped me or touch my crotch. Plus that pulling out part was just too much.