You're showing your age with these types of statements. This isn't about "I'm older so I know better." This is about common sense and studies done and psychology 101 and HUMAN NATURE.Quote:
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Read above. If all you can argue is what you're arguing about above while completely ignoring the jist of whats being said then that's called deflecting.Quote:
Come on. Thats a bit of a low blow. Older =/= wiser.
Just because you're a-sexual it doesn't mean that you'll not form an inappropriate emotional bond with someone else. I for one did not "ridicule" anyone about A-sexualism. I asked some questions about what another poster meant. "Careful what you wish for" was a "warning" it certainly wasn't a ridicule and anyone SHOULD be warned upfront if someone is "A-sexual" because if you get with someone who is NOT then there will be trouble in the relationship as sure as the sun will rise tomorrow.Quote:
And my mention of sex drives is a point to suggest that intimacy is not always a factor for all. Ever heard of the asexual spectrum? Poor form to take that as an opportunity to ridicule of me & the other user (EvilJester).
Do you have ANY personal boundaries, Virtigo.Quote:
Secondly, the problem here is our definitions of friendship. You say friendship = cuddling, latenight dates. What about friendship = being there to talk? If they need support for a cause? Financial support? THAT IS ALL FRIENDSHIP.
You are going to be taken advantage of if you don't. There is being a friend and then there is being a doormat. Which are you?
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