Look if I wanted to 'snag' this guy by having sex, I would've done it a long time ago. I wouldn't wait 4 months to try that tactic. I've had him naked in my room twice. So I don't appreciate being accused of that. I said I plan to 'talk about sex', not actually have sex yet.
Sex IS just as much of an issue to me as the lack of commitment. To be perfectly honest, nothing would infuriate me more at this point, after not having sex in 4 months.. then him disappearing without even having sex!
I haven't seen him in over a week and things are at our lowest point.. it seems like the absolute worst time to initiate a commitment talk. You're entitled to your opinion and I respect it, I appreciate it, I see where you're coming from. But I'm not going to initiate a talk that neither party is ready for. I plan to follow the advice, just not right now because the timing couldn't be worse. I've fallen hard enough for this guy that I'm willing to hold on a few more weeks, rather than risk it all when things are at the lowest point. This isn't just another crush or just another guy to me.. I'm falling in love with this guy and these 'talks' are a lot easier said than done.