Originally Posted by
TheEvilJester
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I'm glad you had that talk, and I am glad you stuck to your guns on it. Honestly.... if I were you I'd have already been gone at this point, but even more so after that conversation. The immature way he handled that would have been the straw that broke this camel's back.... if that hadn't already happened about a dozen straws ago. To me, what I think makes this about a million times worse is that this all seems so ridiculously obviously inappropriate on the part of these neighbor girls and on the part of your boyfriend. Again, if he were single as were they, whole different story. But, with him being with you... I don't know if it is just me, but their actions seem so OBVIOUSLY inappropriate that I can't see how he has any NERVE to be so defensive about it like YOU are the one with the problem.
It would be one thing if he initially just didn't think anything of it or realize there was anything weird/wrong about it..... but the you pointed it out, he got it, and he took steps to correct it. But, you point it out to him and he basically couldn't give a $h*t to do anything to make the situation better. So, like I said before, he's either about the world's biggest moron to not see how that would only make you feel even MORE so like you doesn't value you.... or he's a complete prick and just doesn't care. I dunno, again, maybe I'm being too cynical. But, I just can't even fathom ANY reasonable explanation for him to be that way.
This isn't like they are 100% just friends, they do nothing that crosses the line at all, and you are just being needlessly jealous because he has female friends. Then I could at least understand him being upset with you. But, this is him and these women BLATANTLY crossing over the line of what is appropriate under the circumstances and then him acting like YOU are the one with the problem for not being okay with that.
You're a better person than I am. I'd have hit my breaking point already. I hope he can finally grow the Hell up.... but if not then I hope you care enough about yourself to move on and find somebody who really deserves you. Good luck.