Pinkchampage - I didn't read all the posts, but I don't blame you for thinking ahead about money. Despite all the flaming you've received, money is the number one reason people divorce, and I can see not many good reasons to marry someone who is broke.
That being said, I assume you are what? 25-ish? Males in your age range have to start out somewhere, and they end up working their way up - they usually don't start out with high-paying jobs. therefore, you marry with his income *potential* and degree of motivation in mind - not his current salary. You should know whether or not he is okay with just getting by, or whether he is highly motivated to advance... does he PLAN his life, or does he just sit back and let it happen? Is he good with money, or is he in debt? Does he pay his bills on time? Does he save?
I will agree with whomever said $75-100,000 not being all that much. That is the salary of a single, professional person with a decent (though not extravagant) job in the Los Angeles area. You would not be able to support a family on that amount.