I am okay with them. I would if my dad or brother or male cousins were involved too, not only my future husband and his group of male friends. I don't think all men have them to get sex off strippers before they finally settle down, they can do that with any girl at a club for free if that is a goal. I think your friends future wife was about because he hid it too, a matter of trust.
Can't come up with a new Q at this moment so will pass on yours, Exeter19, okay? See above for Exeter19's Q. Would like to see others views on this too. :)