Originally Posted by
the_doggoned
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After reading your post I'm at a loss for words. I am literally in the same EXACT situation as you. To make it short and sweet, here it goes:
When we first started dating, we had sex all the time. It was magical and beautiful. As time went on it dwindled and dwindled to the point where we are now. A year into our relationship, we have sex once every 2 months, if I'm lucky (and I shouldn't have to be lucky to have sex with my girlfriend).
I tell her it hurts me and that sex in a relationship is important. I ask her why it has come to this, when in the beginning our sex life was so vibrant. Her response, "I don't know. I wish i knew."
I suggest relationship counseling that we can both attend and try to make things work. Her response is, "I'm not ready for that."
If I come on to her or if I bring up the subject of our sex life, she gets defensive and upset. She basically doesn't want me to bring it up because it hurts HER. Um, hmm. What about me?!