Yeah; I guess as a writer, I might make a good contributor to...I dunno yet. But maybe I just ain't BF material.
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Yeah; I guess as a writer, I might make a good contributor to...I dunno yet. But maybe I just ain't BF material.
Is "Be wholehearted" from GNC?Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To be honest, it's not just about pointing out the attitude problem. It's also the broad insults to my gender such as "This experience just proves good looking chicks aren't ever earnest. They're all a buncha game-playing bitches."Quote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LR, you may have noticed that I've said nothing bad to you for a while (until yesterday). That was because, for a change, you were being respectful of others. And it wasn't unpleasant to have you around. But then you go and broadly insult every good looking girl of my gender. Being a female and good looking in my hey-day, your insult includes me. And when I'm offended, I pay it back. So if you don't want to have me paying it back, I suggest you stop the broad insults in the first place.
In short if you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. But don't go all whiney when I return the insults you dish out.
Eh, I guess what I said out of frustration just proves I should aim WAY lower. That way, instead of bashing a gender, I can just express my disappointment in having a partner I don't like whatsoever. Seems more fair.
I started off believing, doing what you guys said...Now I just want to blow my brains out.My stupid brain just doesn't work normally.
The PM I sent. Did you do your homework?Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Consistency, kiddo. That's the ticket. We all struggle with it, btw. I'm procrastinating like the best of them this morning.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Thanks for the help. It just seems I lack the aptitude for it so I'm thinking of just quitting.. I don't really hold much hope for all the meetups I've got planned, either. I guess all I really need is anti-depressants and things to keep myself busy.
No your brain does not work normally. I can honestly say I've never seen such a spray of vitriol over something as relatively minor as a delayed text. And even if she WAS playing games, it still deserves nothing more significant than a roll of the eyes and a "next" on your part. That level of outburst should be reserved for being cheated on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Also, being frustrated is no excuse for being obnoxious. How will you manage to maintain a relationship if this is how you behave when frustrated/confused? You really need to learn to control this temper of yours...and especially to not sweat the small stuff.
Have you re-booked that psychologist yet?
Well, I'm not just thinking for myself: the other guys like me being abused by attractive women who exploit their looks to violate societal conventions. Cases like this girl just prove that attractive girls are as generalized; rarely do homely girls act in this fashion. Besides, I'm in no position to just shrug off a tease: I get extremely few, limited opportunities. If I don't take advantage of one, it could pretty much be my last.
Lol and speak of the devil, I got a text from her a half hour ago. LOL....Even more hilarious, NO mention of why my call was "missed" nor my text "missed"...Every other human being Ive ever met has always asked for a pardon. NOT THIS ONE. And anyway, as re: frustration, it would be a lot easier to handle in a relationship: what I don't like at all is finally having cause to get excited and then it goes abominably such as in this instance. That's the worst thing of all, like Providence putting a million dollar bill on a string and...well, you know the trick.
Nope. Didn't think I was going to need a psychologist, since I'd already had visions of going on a date. Boy, was that misguided.
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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You're proving it spewing that bs ^^^^Quote:
Maybe I'm just not a fun guy
Lol. I think that baby would have better luck than I...
ahaa.. you saw that before I deleted it. Good. That's you, dude.. not "that baby"
Whatchu talkin' 'bout?Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Go back and read what I quoted. You're proving you're not a fun guy. Fun guys don't keep spewing that crap about themselves every chance they get. You are NOT a fun guy. I believe you.
If she is rude then call her out on it. Just tell her ... "Thanks for the text. But I assumed since I didn't hear back from you that you were uninterested. Wishing you all the best in your search. Cheers." Who knows? Maybe she laughs at you for a fool or maybe... noone has called her on her rudeness and she apologizes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You don't want to deal with anyone who starts out your interactions being rude. It never improves.