I agree with that part. My initial post states that he should wait until she have the baby then get her straight.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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I agree with that part. My initial post states that he should wait until she have the baby then get her straight.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yep, I agree. I basically said the same thing - at least that's what I meant :-).
lmao. I picture her to be pretty and a activist and sort of serious and all that lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by KingZ [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lol, I looove Hermione (book-Hermione of course :D )Quote:
Originally Posted by KingZ [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Aww thanks Star ^_^!
For some reason, I always picture Searock as one of my friend's girlfriends. Maybe because they're both do-gooder, softies.
Didn't know who Hermione was, but just looked her up and does look similar to what I picture.
Okay but I just don't think I can be calm till the baby comes I see her differently now it's not going to be the same I don't even wanna be in the same bed with her... I want to beat him to death and figure this out with her. I'm really mad I don't even wanna be there with her when she has the baby I don't care it's not as big a deal as it was before all this before I was having a child with the love of my life. Now it feels like she's just a girl I may or may not have gotten pregnant. How can I love someone who probably cheated on me and what if it's not even my baby. I don't know you guys are just making me think about a lot of stuff and it's not the first time I would have been cheated on by and I don't wanna do that again.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
BTW: She wouldn't be screwed of I left her she'd just move in with him...
On first glance, this seems like it should be the right way to deal with it, and it would be if everyone was honest about things. But the fact is, if a person is cheating or somehow being dishonest, then when they hear something like this, they know you're hooked, and they know they can manipulate you.Quote:
Originally Posted by confusedguy1012 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My advise is to draw the line: tell her if you ever find out again that she's "cuddling" with someone else, you'll break up with her, she'll never see you again. This is really the only way you can find out her true intentions and at the same time free yourself of torment.Quote:
how do I approach this without her freaking out again and how can I get her to talk to me? Once again i'm sorry for taking up all your guys time. Thanks in advance!
Yeah. A pretty serious activist.Quote:
Originally Posted by Starnique [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
:D
She probably looks like a dik-dik with glasses.
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I'd imagine a dik-dik to look more like this:
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Anyway, OP, again I ask you, how can you have changed your mind so quickly about her? You've known this woman for 5 years and have been with her for 4… do you really think she has been cheating on you, and if so, how come you never noticed anything before? I mean, sure, when she cuddled with her friend that was emotional cheating, but now you're actually questioning whether the child is yours?! Don't you know her at all? I totally understand your anger, I would feel the same way, I just don't quite believe that things were so perfect before this one incident. Surely there were other signs, if she was cheating on you?
I really didn't see any signs but I work a lot how do I know. I don't know you guys just make good points and plus she's always been out of my league anyway. I mean I know she kinda cheated on the guy she dated before me. So I don't know what to think..Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Out of your league, what does that even mean?! You've been together for 4 years, you're having a baby together, you're not in high school, ffs.
It seems to me like your relationship was never as perfect and wonderful as you say it was. You were often away, you never really believed that you two belonged together (because you put her on a pedestal), you probably never really trusted her and she probably took you for granted. There was no deep connection/communication, otherwise you would have known / wouldn't be questioning it now.
It means i'm quite aware that a lot of other guys could have her and I got her outta scheer dumb luckQuote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I know what it means, it's just that adults don't generally use that phrase… it's something immature high school kids use. You've been with her for 4 years, you're having a baby together and yet you still think she's too good for you - based solely on her looks? My, my.